He’s History, You’re Not

Saying “ain’t” a lot ain’t a problem. The other things about Creationism may prove to be a barrier if yo’re not bent that way. Some guys go on and on simply because they don’t know what else to do. If he is truly someone you may be interested in you may want to consider some written guidelines. Most guys are dense and require clearly identifiable boundaries. W For example; You may want to email him and state the following 1) You can only talk about yourself after I’m done saying what I have to say. 2) You may only speak when I’m talking in order to clarify something I’ve been saying. 3) The following areas of discussion are forbidden: ex-wives, religion, politics, other forms of magic, and money. 4) I will do something you like (such as bass fishing or going to a monster truck rally) without complaining if you do something I like (such as a play or a jazz band) without complaining or whining. Tit-for-tat. Blue collar guys are good for a lot of things-even old ones. They can fix things, they can drive a long way,they can learn new basic skills, they shower at the end of the day as opposed to the morning, they’re always greatful for attention like hand holding and watching TV together, they’re usually good for their word-a man’s word is his bond, etc., etc., they’ll drive 600 miles to bail your stupid daughter out of a DV situation and maybe even bring some friends along, etc. The down side of blue collar old guys is that that they’re not flexible in a lot of areas such as politics or religion, they often don’t tolerate a lot of silliness from people-especially from people who cop an attitude (respect is a big deal for these guys), they don’t travel much. It makes them nervous, they absolutely will not talk about their feelings-physiologically impossible, they like things that you may not like football, monstertrucks, and ribeye steaks. They get really nervous about women’s sexuality-you gotta take it slow with these guys and not whip out toys on him right away.