Comments on: What I learned from foster parenting training. http://heshistory.com/2008/10/what-i-learned-from-foster-parenting-training/ Surviving Divorce After 40 Fri, 06 Mar 2009 14:58:54 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: John Garrett http://heshistory.com/2008/10/what-i-learned-from-foster-parenting-training/comment-page-1/#comment-54 John Garrett Fri, 24 Oct 2008 13:25:01 +0000 http://heshistory.com/?p=123#comment-54 Hi, Erica: Well, I don't know who you were "working" with, but it sounds like it wasn't a good match. I always tell my clients that if they don't feel comfortable with me, they won't get the benefits of the processes I use and they should find someone else. And, you're right in that the practitioner MUST have a sense of humor (and a thick skin). That said, I hope that you find someone who can meet your needs. I have worked with law enforcement, military, and civilians using the EFT method, and it works. Delivery of service is VERY important, along with a clear explanation of who, what and how. Good Luck Hi, Erica:

Well, I don’t know who you were “working” with, but it sounds like it wasn’t a good match. I always tell my clients that if they don’t feel comfortable with me, they won’t get the benefits of the processes I use and they should find someone else. And, you’re right in that the practitioner MUST have a sense of humor (and a thick skin).

That said, I hope that you find someone who can meet your needs. I have worked with law enforcement, military, and civilians using the EFT method, and it works. Delivery of service is VERY important, along with a clear explanation of who, what and how.

Good Luck

]]> By: Patricia http://heshistory.com/2008/10/what-i-learned-from-foster-parenting-training/comment-page-1/#comment-53 Patricia Fri, 24 Oct 2008 08:45:10 +0000 http://heshistory.com/?p=123#comment-53 Hi Erica I totally understand your reasons for giving up EFT! You have to be compatible with your therapist or it just does not work. I think it is a shame though, because in my opinion EFT is the quickest, and therefore cheapest, form of therapy there is. It seems that talk therapy just goes round and round in circles, not resolving the issues. Maybe you need to shop around for a different therapist. I don't watch Saturday Night Live as I am English, (and living in England) but I could offer you a free 20 minute session using the phone to see how we get on if you like. (This is my usual way of working.) Then, if you want to continue, we can either arrange another time to work or carry on for an hour. I have a good phone deal so I can phone the US at no extra charge. Or we could use Skype if you prefer. Let me know. Patricia Hi Erica
I totally understand your reasons for giving up EFT! You have to be compatible with your therapist or it just does not work.
I think it is a shame though, because in my opinion EFT is the quickest, and therefore cheapest, form of therapy there is. It seems that talk therapy just goes round and round in circles, not resolving the issues.

Maybe you need to shop around for a different therapist. I don’t watch Saturday Night Live as I am English, (and living in England) but I could offer you a free 20 minute session using the phone to see how we get on if you like. (This is my usual way of working.) Then, if you want to continue, we can either arrange another time to work or carry on for an hour. I have a good phone deal so I can phone the US at no extra charge. Or we could use Skype if you prefer.
Let me know.
Patricia

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